Aaron is in full exam mode, so this is more from my perspective
Northumbria is a region in the far NE England, on the border of Scotland. It is also home to a community called
Northumbria who are committed to a sort of modern day monaticsm--living like monks in principle, but out in the community, in families, etc. They seem to be largely based on the Celtic spirituality, though they take from modern and ancient sources of Christian teaching.
I first heard about them from a devotion, which is my favorite--The Celtic Daily Prayer. I have been following their rhythm of prayer off and on for about 7 years and just really enjoyed the readings and thoughts. I like the idea of an ebb and a flow to our lives and relationship with God. One of the quotes was how their faith is shaped by the landscape, so it was a real honor to travel that way for a week-end retreat.
Aaron gave this to me for a b-day present, so we all stayed together, but he took the kids!
A friend let us borrow his car and we all went up to Newcastle to stay with his friends in a glorious 7 story Victorian house--we all had a blast and experienced some sweet English hospitality. Our friend took the train home (so humbling to receive such generosity!) and we headed to Holy Island or Lindisfarne. We could only get there between the tides, so we had to be sure to be out by 2:30pm and guess what we mostly did between 3 kids? That's right--the toliet!! aw, man! I was trying to understand what God was telling me as I have waited 7 years to visit this place of lore and history and waiting on my kids to do their business :). hmmmm.... It is absolutely a beautiful and island and much like it would have been in the 300's when many incredible writings and visions came out of this place.
After a quick stop at a nearby castle, we went to the middle of nowhere to find the Nether Springs and the mother house of the Northumbria Community--very simple and yet one of the most hospitable places on earth!
I was there for the retreat, but the kids and Aaron stayed with me and were invited into the rhythm of the house--5:30 evening prayer, 6pm dinner and while we are served, the guests help with the washing up. 9pm compline prayers.
The prayers are said in the chapel-- a bell would ring and then we would scurry to the chapel to the welcoming candles, simple beauty and healing silence.
Friday night I just cried as my stressed out and weary body met the power of saying prayers I had for years said by myself with a community of like minded strangers! wow! God spoke to me of gentleness and purity being what He wanted to work in me.
Then there was the retreat--not at all like I expected, but one of the most powerful retreats I have ever been on--amazing! About 8pm, this crazy man burst into the living room where we met with tea and a cozy fire--he came mid conversation and ended up leaving mid conversation as he had to rush back to beat the tides--he lives on Holy Island.
The topic was Given for Life and on the subject of the motivational gift we are born with. The Bible teaches a lot by groups of 7 and sure enough, in Romans 12, Paul lists these gifts we are all born with--just one each, please :). It's the why you do things. Cool. I had heard similar teaching from Arthur Burk in America, but this had different explanations and examples and personally, God spoke to me about mothering all week-end! It was amazing. The gifts are prophet, teacher/explainer, mercy, servant, ruler/leader, giver and exhorter and really shows how we all need each other and God intends to gift us differently to bless each other. So, we can give and receive--from anybody whether they realized God or not. It was and is such powerful and freeing teaching!
I loved the small group and the way the teacher told stories and was just this profound and normal guys sharing what he's learned and encouraging us to do the same--very much like Jesus. As I think back, the most life changing times for me have been in people's living rooms and kitchen tables as we share with each other burdens and joys. He gave us many answers gleaned from the Bible and experience, but led us to many questions to be pondered and worked out in our daily lives--so exciting. We can't mass produce faith and we can't live on other's faith, we must work these questions out in our own lives and encourage each other--I love the idea that we are on pilgrimage.
On Sunday, Micah joined me for the morning prayers and it was such an honor to be besides him praying and sharing. Aaron joined me for compline prayers at night and we continue to do that at home--powerful and moving.
What an honor.
Aaron is my total hero for giving me this wonderful retreat! Micah took this foto of us at one of the many castles to visit on the North England coast.

Although we all stayed together, I went on a retreat and Aaron was a champ and took the kids out to different sights--storming castles....

Going to Scotland without me (aww, man!)

Playing around....

Hiking....

The North Sea and a michevious windy November day

A visit to Holy Island--that day the tide was ebbing at 7:30 am and flowing at 2:30pm or is it the other way around? This is the view as we were trying to beat the tide at 2:30pm--all over the island, they had pictures of cars that had gotten caught in the tide and we had a retreat to get to...

oops, out of order... The view from our window at Nether Springs....

The Castle on Lidisfarne, or Holy Island

View from St. Mary's church-- a medieval church, still in use!
